What is the solution?
Before you vote, take a deep breath. Meditate on the future you desire. Consider carefully if you have been duped into believing yourself a victim...or not. Consider carefully your position of privilege, or lack there of. Take a deep breath and try to be honest with yourself. Take a deep breath and really see your neighbors. Try to imagine a world where our differences can be a strength rather than a threat.
Take a deep breath and vote for civil candidates. Vote from love of country and of all its citizens rather than from hyped up fear. Vote for the ideas that you think, on balance, will help us ALL.
Take a deep breath and hold your desired outcomes lightly. We are basically a 2-party country, which means we, and our chosen candidates, cannot win all the time! Your vote matters and it is one of the foundations of a civil society. Remember that winning at all costs leads to costs that are too high. We do not need to be at war with one another. We are not enemies. We are all citizens of the same country. My parents announced that always cancelled each other's votes. But they always voted anyways. They believed it to be their responsibility. And besides, they never knew which of their tabulated votes might have been the key vote to enact their preferred ideas!
Besides, it's fun!